Bedtime without battles.
School pickup without drama.
Family dinners that actually get eaten.

If that sounds impossibly far from where you are right now, you’re not alone. I’ve been there. Years of trying harder, being more consistent, waiting it out. None of that works when your child’s brain is wired differently.

Untangle is where parents learn to work with their kids’ brains, not against them with strategies that actually fit how your child thinks.

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The approach behind Untangle was developed and refined through real 1:1 coaching with NZ families, then built into a platform so more parents could access it, without the waitlist or the hourly rate.

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You’re not the only parent dealing with……

Morning routines that take 2 hours and still end in tears even though you’ve tried every chart, reward system, and “expert” tip out there
School emails that make your heart sink before you even open them another incident, another meeting, another suggestion that doesn’t understand your child
Birthday parties your child can’t handle or the crushing guilt when they don’t get invited
Family who mean well but don’t get why “simple” things like getting dressed, eating dinner, or sitting still are daily battle
Waiting lists that stretch for months while your child struggles right now and you’re told to “just hang in there”
Here’s the truth:


It’s not your parenting. It’s not your child’s fault either.

The world wasn’t designed with neurodivergent kids in mind. But that doesn’t mean you have to keep struggling alone.

Neurodivergent children

Generic advice doesn’t work because your child isn’t generic.

Your 6-year-old with ADHD has different needs than your neighbour’s autistic 8-year-old. Different strengths. Different triggers. What works for one family might be useless or even backfire for yours.

That’s why Untangle starts with OWLS. Take a short questionnaire based on your goals, your child’s behaviour, and your current challenges, and get a profile that maps how your child’s brain actually works — where they’re quietly brilliant, where things are genuinely hard, and where the right support makes all the difference. That’s OWLS: Overcome Weaknesses and Leverage Strengths. And because your child at seven isn’t your child at eleven, OWLS isn’t a one-time thing. Your membership grows with them.

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Ways to Work With Untangle

Personalised Membership — $42/month
Starts with OWLS — a profile that maps how your child’s brain actually works, and shapes everything inside the membership from day one. And as your child grows, so does your plan. Short lessons, a monthly recorded member session with real questions and real answers, and a community of NZ parents who get it. Cancel anytime.

Guided Programme — $497
Everything in the General Membership for three months, plus two 1:1 coaching calls. For families who want a more hands-on start.

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You don’t have to figure this out alone.

Whether you start with the free newsletter or join the membership, you’re taking a step toward understanding how your child’s brain actually works. And that’s worth doing.

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